Losing a loved one is one of life's most difficult experiences. For couples who shared a lifetime together, many families find comfort in the idea of keeping them side by side even after they have passed.
This is where companion urns can offer a meaningful and lasting tribute.
What Is a Companion Urn?
A companion urn is a larger memorial urn designed to hold the cremated ashes of two people. They are often chosen by married couples, life partners, or family members who wish to remain together.
Unlike standard ashes urns, companion urns provide enough capacity for two sets of cremated remains within a single memorial vessel.
Why Families Choose Companion Urns
Many families choose companion urns because they reflect the bond shared between two people throughout their lives.
Common reasons include:
Keeping couples together permanently
Creating a single memorial rather than two separate urns
Saving space within the home
Providing a meaningful symbol of love and companionship
For many families, a companion urn offers comfort and peace of mind during a difficult time.
How Much Capacity Is Needed?
As a general guide, an adult's cremated ashes usually require around 3 to 3.5 litres of capacity.
A companion urn will typically provide between 6 and 7 litres, making it suitable for two adults.
It is always advisable to check the urn's stated capacity before making a purchase.
Can Ashes Be Kept Separate?
Yes.
Many modern companion urns feature two separate internal chambers. This allows each person's ashes to remain individually contained while still being housed within the same urn.
Other designs use a single larger chamber, combining both sets of ashes together.
The choice comes down to personal preference.
Where Can Companion Urns Be Displayed?
Companion urns are commonly displayed in:
Living rooms
Bedrooms
Memorial shelves
Dedicated remembrance areas
Glass-fronted cabinets
Many families choose a location that allows them to feel close to their loved ones while maintaining a tasteful and respectful appearance within the home.
Companion Urns vs Two Separate Urns
Both options are equally respectful.
A companion urn may be suitable if:
The couple expressed a wish to remain together
Space is limited
A single memorial is preferred
Separate urns may be more suitable if:
Family members wish to keep ashes in different locations
Different memorial styles are preferred
One person's ashes may be scattered in the future
There is no right or wrong choice. The most important consideration is selecting an option that feels meaningful to your family.
Choosing the Right Companion Urn
When selecting a companion urn, consider:
Capacity
Material
Design and style
Indoor or outdoor use
Personalisation options
Many families choose engraved companion urns featuring names, dates, or meaningful messages to create a unique tribute.
Final Thoughts
Companion urns provide a beautiful way to honour a lifelong bond. Whether chosen for spouses, partners, or close family members, they offer a lasting memorial that reflects love, togetherness, and cherished memories.
At Serenity Urns, we understand how important it is to find a memorial that feels right for your family. Taking the time to choose the perfect companion urn can provide comfort for many years to come.
